Different people have different perspective and it changes with everyone. One thing can mean so many things to others. By trying to understand it, you get to know what other person is thinking, what are the other possibilities for one same thing. The perspective changes with every person and I think it’s a very powerful thing and in order to socialize or to succeed in the world or just to live in it peacefully we should be able to understand somebody else’s perspective.

 Perspective or POV is a very interesting thing as it will change with each individual and you can never approve, oppose or feel included with the same thing. If you think a M is a W then that’s how you are thinking, that’s what your life and your experience has taught you that it’s a M. But from other person’s point of view it will be a W and their life and their experiences and their environment has taught them that it is a W so neither of you are wrong but neither of you are right. That’s the amazing thing about perspective. To me what I think is right and the same thing that I think is right will be wrong for someone else and what is wrong for somebody else, it just might be right for me.

The whole thing about perspective is how we think about things, how we perceive this world and how we identify the things which happen in our lives and what we learn from them, how we distinguish the life lessons which life has to teach us, how we execute the things that we see or fear or believe.  I think believe plays a very vital role in perspective because Believe is something very powerful and if you believe in things then you know they happen and if nothing then believe gives you a lot more power and courage to move ahead so  believe could be the very driving force behind perspective.

As I have said perspective is an amazing thing because our environment, our life experiences, our choices all of these things teach us perspective and if we are not willing to learn it then life becomes quite hectic well not hectic but it becomes a little bit tough to live because if you’re not willing to open up to somebody else, if you’re not opening up to someone else’s experiences, their exposure then life will be quite monotonic and you will not be able to have different exposures for one same thing.

All I want to say is that when you learn one thing from different perspectives then you get a lot of knowledge as a different experience is embedded in it and that’s why to have somebody else’s perspective is amazing because then you can think like that person and then you can know what that person is thinking or why is that person thinking which will widen your area of thinking, which will give you a broader approach to life. You will be able to handle situations with different approaches because you won’t be just tied down to one thing which is monotonic and you will have this great exposure to so many things that it will make your life colorful.

For example if we are living with our favorite color, it’s not bad but it’s kind of dull and monotonic but if we mix other colors in it and then it can become a rainbow and you can do anything with the rainbow and rainbow can be yours for approaching so the same thing is with perspective. Try to be more open minded, try to learn others point of view, try to see where they’re coming from because that will not only help you on social level but it’ll help you on spiritual level as well because some people are very gifted. They are very spiritual and helpful and their thinking is very unique and if we can meet people like that and then learn from them and see things from their perspective, we just might end up thinking like them; we just might like it better because sometimes what happens is that when you have your own perspective things get dull, they are boring, you don’t like it and the world makes no sense but if you’re watching it from somebody else’s perspective then the world can be a beautiful place and life can be a this beautiful thing that you want to live so that’s why it’s important to be open. It’s important to open yourself to a new experience. So I will suggest that please, please be more open to somebody else’s perspective, be more open to somebody else’s point of view as these things only will enrich you and they will give you wider and broader approach to matters in your life and then you will be able to make decisions with more certainty. Just be a little bit more open.

I’m not saying that you have to agree with whatever the other person is saying. I’m just saying just listen to that person see where they’re coming from and then think for yourself and decide for yourself. Thinking as what if I would be on that person’s place what would I do? how would I approach things? how will I live my life? how would I do certain things and this will widen your mind and your thinking. You will be able to think a lot more than usual and plus you can experience something that is absolutely, absolutely opposite of you and it can be amazing you may like it, you may hate it, there is no guarantee in anything but the thing is that you will know more, you will see things, things in every other color there is to see rather than just one color and I’m not saying that leave your own color, no don’t do that but just have empathy or resolve to be able to listen to someone or I guess just Intuition or something like that just so that you can have a place for every other color in your life so that your life can get colorful and it doesn’t stay monotonic. And perspective is something that can do this for you because you can live your life from different point of view if you want to or you can have your own point of view but still listen to others and just see what they have to say or what they have to do and then make your choices according to it.

So try to see things from others perspective. It will give you a better understanding of the world and yourself and you can even make changes in yourself if you think that there are some things that you need to change then just see yourself from someone else’s POV and then make those changes. I think my life is not that great and I want to end it as I am struggling with mental health issues and when I told my sister that I wanna die she said why? why would you wanna do something like this? you have such a perfect life.you have everything you need, see yourself from my eyes and then you will understand how important you are to me. so hearing these words made me realize that how important perspective is.

Now if someone told me that he or she wants to die then I would sympathize with them and tell them to live on and try to convince them how beautiful life is alongside its hardships and make them see life from a new perspective, so that’s what I am doing for myself. I am seeing my own life from my sisters perspective and it’s bearable enough to live.

So tell yourself your own story and listen to yourself carefully and then treat yourself the way you would treat another person with same problems as you. When we are listening to someone’s story we feel sorry for them,  we try to comfort them but if the same things happen to us we don’t do that for ourselves so that’s why we need to have a different perspective of our own life because If I can feel sad for someone else and then try to make them feel comfortable and say nice things and really mean them so why don’t we do that for ourselves. Remember to be nice and kind to yourself. It is equally important.